A room of one’s own
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Temporary fixes don’t last forever
It was New Year’s Eve when it happened; a big corner of the living room wallpaper fell down, revealing that it had been re-attached with blu-tac. It got me thinking, how often do we plaster a smile over a breaking heart, or a brave face over worry? And is it fooling anyone? I have discovered…
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You have a hope, you have a future.
I wrote that sentence down a while ago but saw it again today and thought, as the new year looms, as the list of things I am dreading grows, now is the time to think about affirmation and promise. Shake off apprehension and welcome anticipation of good things.
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Never stop looking
My son reminded me the other day of a lesson I frequently forget. He saw an amazing sunrise in Aberdeen. He walked towards it and saw dolphins jumping in the sea close by. If he had not looked, or responded to what he saw, he would not have found the sunrise or the dolphins. I…
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The book is born
Sorry, moving house tomorrow and I’m just going to post this again! In 2010, I started blogging as a way to help me deal with my health situation. Over the last 15 years, I’ve posted over 600 times, regularly, on a Monday. I’ve often considered publishing the collection as a book, and I have finally…
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Hidden in plain sight
There is a mountain of worry in my head. There is a pile of presents on the bed. The sky is covered in clouds. So much is crowding out what really matters. I think about the cradle with baby Jesus, and the cross where He died. I live for those two amazing truths – God…
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My rays of sunshine
I was sitting on the sofa, stuck on what I could write about this week when my daughter came smiling down the stairs. I wondered how many times she had done that, and how many times have I missed out on her smile?
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Concrete moments
Life moves quickly, for some. I don’t know how it got to be 2025. I remember I said at the beginning of this year that it will be the year I would walk properly again. There’s no sign of that happening sadly. It’s November and I’m still the way I was this time last year.…
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A different letter
I’ve been making myself sad by reading a few ‘letters’ by people with MS, published by the MS Society. Read them here I have to share my letter. It is sad but the best thing is, there is NO FULL STOP. Nothing ends with defeat. I believe that so strongly. There is a verse in…
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What the cockle pool taught me
There’s a pool in Donegal that has been there for at least three years. (I’m told the storms have filled it in again now). I think the first year I tried to get down the steep hill but couldn’t make it across the sand to it. Since then, I’ve become increasingly unable to get there
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When it looks like everything is going wrong
Something must be going right. If you feel like you’re overwhelmed, look around for good things.